Honoring Q~ A Father’s Day Tribute

Honoring Quintin: A Father's Day Tribute Through Threads of Love

This Fatherโ€™s Day hits different.

Last April, our world changed forever. My husband, Quintinโ€”my rock, the father of our four children, the man who led with faith, grit, and a heart of goldโ€”was called home to heaven unexpectedly. And even now, more than a year later, there are still moments where it doesnโ€™t feel real. But as a family, weโ€™ve clung to each other, held tight to Jesus, and found healing in the most unexpected placesโ€”like reclaiming the table, shared stories, and worn-in t-shirts.

This year, my children and I decided to do something special. Something deeply personal. Each of us created a t-shirt design in honor of Q, and each one tells a storyโ€”his story, our story. This drop isnโ€™t just about shirts. Itโ€™s about legacy. Itโ€™s about love. And itโ€™s about keeping the voice of a father and husband alive in the most everyday, meaningful way we can: right on our heartsโ€ฆ and our sleeves.

Let me share with you the heart behind each designโ€”from mine, and from each of my kids.


KALE: “DONโ€™T SUCK” โ€“ THE REMINDER THAT REALLY MEANT EVERYTHING

Kale, my oldest, was always the one who felt the weight of performance. Whether it was Friday night football lights or a packed Saturday baseball tournament, he put so much pressure on himself to be the best. And Qโ€”he knew just what to say, in that classic dad way that cuts through all the nerves and perfectionism.

โ€œDonโ€™t suck.โ€

That was his line. Straightforward. Hilarious. Honest. But oh, it meant so much more than it seemed on the surface. It was his way of saying, “Don't let the pressure steal your joy. Don't forget who you are. Play your game and leave it all out thereโ€”just do your best.”

Kaleโ€™s shirt, bold and simple, reads โ€œDonโ€™t Suckโ€ in big letters, and underneath, itโ€™s anchored with Qโ€™s favorite Bible verse: John 3:17 โ€“ โ€œFor God did not send his Son into the world to condemn the world, but to save the world through him.โ€

This verse meant everything to Quintin. He was a man who didnโ€™t lead with condemnation, but with compassion. He didnโ€™t expect perfection, but purpose. He always reminded Kaleโ€”and all of usโ€”that weโ€™re not defined by our mistakes, but by the grace we carry. That verse, combined with his favorite phrase, reminds us that weโ€™re free to show up, to play hard, to love deeplyโ€ฆ and to let go of the rest.

This shirt is Kaleโ€™s tribute to his dadโ€™s voice in the stands, his calm before every storm, and the man who showed him how to walk out his faith in cleats and clearness of heart.

You can grab Kales shirt HERE


ELLA: โ€œFOR SUCH A TIME AS THISโ€ โ€“ A DAUGHTER CALLED INTO PURPOSE

Ella is our oldest daughterโ€”creative, thoughtful, and tender-hearted. Sheโ€™s always felt things deeply, and over the last year, sheโ€™s wrestled with big questions about identity, calling, and what her place in this world looks like now that her dad is gone.

But Q never let her wander too far in her doubt. Every time she questioned her value, he pointed her back to a single verse:

Esther 4:14 โ€“ โ€œAnd who knows whether you have not come to the kingdom for such a time as this?โ€

That was her verse. Her dad told her that over and over again: โ€œElla, you were made for this moment.โ€ He saw her strength even when she didnโ€™t. He saw her potential when all she felt was pressure.

Ellaโ€™s shirt carries that verse proudly, alongside a crown and a small, meaningful โ€œQโ€ woven into the design. Itโ€™s feminine, faith-filled, and full of gritโ€”just like her. She says this shirt isnโ€™t just fabric, itโ€™s her armor. A way to wear the words that lifted her in her lowest season.

This oneโ€™s for every girl wondering if sheโ€™s enough. For every daughter unsure of her place. And for every father who once whispered truth that echoes long after heโ€™s gone.

You can grab Ella's T-shirt HERE


FISHER: โ€œGET AFTER ITโ€ โ€“ A BLUEPRINT FOR LIFE

Fisher is my youngest son. The one who got to work side-by-side with his dad the most. He was Qโ€™s little shadow at Conway Family Properties. From digging holes to hauling lumber, Fisher learned what real work looked likeโ€”and he loved it. But more than that, he loved the man who stood beside him.

Before every job, Q had a mantra. We all heard it a thousand times: โ€œGet after it.โ€

It became a household phrase. Sometimes serious. Sometimes silly. Always classic Q. Fisher decided that would be the phrase he carried forwardโ€”his badge of honor and memory.

His shirt reads โ€œGet After It,โ€ and beneath it, the verse Colossians 3:23 โ€“ โ€œWhatever you do, work heartily, as for the Lord and not for men.โ€

That verse perfectly reflects how Q lived. He believed in doing things the right way, even when no one was watching. He showed us all that hard work is a form of worship. That diligence builds more than wallsโ€”it builds character.

Fisherโ€™s shirt is for the workers. The builders. The ones who grind it out with integrity. Itโ€™s a reminder that work, when done with heart and for the Lord, becomes something holy.


LILY: โ€œALL STAR BREAKFASTโ€ โ€“ LOVE SERVED SUNNY SIDE UP

Lily is our youngest, and she was definitely her daddyโ€™s girl. One of their favorite things to do together? Go to Waffle House. Just the two of them. Some hashbrowns, maybe a waffle, and a cup of coffee that was far too strong for a little girlโ€”but she sipped it anyway because it made her feel grown-up and close to her dad.

Their breakfast dates were sacred. It wasnโ€™t about the foodโ€”it was about the time. The laughter. The deep talks. The space he made for her.

Lilyโ€™s shirt is an โ€œAll Star Breakfastโ€ design that looks just like their favorite meal. Every detailโ€”extra crispy hashbrowns, white plates, a coffee cup with a little heart-shaped โ€œQโ€ on itโ€”was crafted with so much love. And under the food? The words:

โ€œAn Invitation ~ Revelation 3:20โ€

Revelation 3:20 says: โ€œBehold, I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in to him and eat with him, and he with me.โ€

Thatโ€™s what breakfast was with Qโ€”a daily invitation to commune. To show up for one another. It mirrored our Heavenly Fatherโ€™s heart: time spent, hearts opened, no distractions. Just love served warm.

This shirt isnโ€™t just cuteโ€”itโ€™s sacred. It honors the quiet, steady love of a father who showed up again and again, one breakfast at a time.

Grab Lily's shirt HERE


LORI: โ€œIT IS WELL WITH MY SOULโ€ โ€“ A MOTHERโ€™S MANTRA, A FAMILYโ€™S FLOWERS

And nowโ€ฆ my shirt.

This one was the hardest to make. Because it comes from a place that still aches. But itโ€™s also the most healing piece of clothing Iโ€™ve ever held in my hands.

The night Q passed, he came home and did something he had never done before. He hung his hat on the cross by the front door. That cross has a sign above it that reads: โ€œIt Is Well With My Soul.โ€

I didnโ€™t know that would be the last time I'd see him. But somehow, that momentโ€”his hat on that cross, those words above itโ€”became the image that anchors me. That holds me up when the waves come crashing.

So my design is simple and soft. The words โ€œIt Is Well With My Soulโ€ centered in calm, steady lettering. And around them? The birth flowers of our family: Narcissus for December. Poppy for August. Lily of the Valley for May. Blooming together, rooted in shared love.

This shirt is my testimony. A declaration that even in the deepest grief, peace is possible. That God is still good. That we are still together, somehow, even though Qโ€™s no longer physically here.


ONE LEGACY, MANY THREADS

Each of these shirts tells a different story. Each of my kids put their whole heart into their designsโ€”not just to remember their dad, but to carry him forward. And me? I just feel beyond honored to be their mama. To have loved a man worth honoring this deeply. And to keep his legacy alive, not just in words or photos, but in wearable, shareable reminders of faith, family, and fatherhood.

If youโ€™re reading this and youโ€™ve lost someone too, I hope our shirts remind you that grief and gratitude can live together. That laughter still shows up in the middle of tears. And that legacy is never really lostโ€”it just finds new ways to speak.

So this Fatherโ€™s Day, weโ€™re not just mourning. Weโ€™re moving forward with love.

Weโ€™re getting after it.

Weโ€™re holding tight to purpose.

Weโ€™re showing up for breakfast.

Weโ€™re saying what matters.

And weโ€™re believing, even stillโ€ฆ

It is well with our souI


If you made it this far, thank you for sitting with our story. Thank you for loving and remembering Q with us. And if any of these designs speak to your heart, know that youโ€™re not just wearing a shirtโ€”youโ€™re wearing a piece of our familyโ€™s love.

Shop the Collection: Wear the Legacy

These shirts are more than just fabric โ€” theyโ€™re faith, memory, and family all wrapped into something you can wear close to your heart. Whether youโ€™ve lost someone special, want to honor a great dad in your life, or simply love a meaningful story behind your style โ€” we invite you to be part of ours.

You can shop the full Fatherโ€™s Day Tribute Collection right here:

With grace and gratitude,
Crazy Busy Mama (Lori Conway)
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  1. ?? This is without doubt the sweetest thing I’ve ever seen. I just know that your daddy is looking down from Heaven and smiling and saying “Those are MY babies and MY sweet wife”!!! I will definitely be ordering!!! โ™ฅ๏ธ Sending so many prayers for you all.

  2. Beautiful and a wonderful legacy. This is our 4th Fatherโ€™s Day without my childrenโ€™s father and my 13th Fatherโ€™s Day without my own daddy. And itโ€™s still hard.

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